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Haters: Real or Imaginary?

5/5/2015

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Everyone thinks they have haters. If someone doesn't like you- or you THINK they don't like you- if they don't like your photo's, follow you on social media or comment on how much weight you've lost then they are a "hater".

Hmmm. . . .I'm not so sure about that.  Consider this:

1.  Maybe they didn't see the social media post you so carefully orchestrated. Perhaps they weren't even online that day or that hour.

2.  Maybe they can't really tell you've lost that much weight- maybe you haven't.

3.  Maybe they don't agree with what you did or said. (it's their prerogative) 

4.   Maybe they never like ANYBODY'S posts.

5. WHO CARES?

Don't get me wrong, there are definitely people out there who are not necessarily your biggest fans (that's life) but I'm willing to bet we're talking one or two people not a whole army of folks who are secretly plotting your demise. But what we focus on grows . . .so, don't focus so much on your so-called haters, focus more on the people who love and support you. Give them your time, energy and positive thoughts. And let the haters continue to hate. Besides hating on other people is more about what they are lacking and has absolutely nothing to do with you. 

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1 Comment
MB
5/15/2021 01:13:18 pm

I agree! Some people believe that everyone is jealous and "hating" on them.
It's delusional, especially when there's nothing to "hate" on.

There is somebody I know who swears that I am jealous of her, that I "hate" on her, that I want her life.
And her friends actually tell her this! I simply laugh because this is not true.
I'm happy being myself. Sure, my life is far from perfect, but it's like...no, boo, I don't want to be you.

We are both attractive women (in different ways), both smart, both married to good men.
So for her to call me a "hater" is just weird. Some people wish that others felt jealous/insecure, and this is why they come up with imaginary haters.
In reality no one is hating on them.

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